Jealusy in girls

We are talking about friendship between girls here.

Why are girls so envious of each other? Why can’t they be happy for others? We place our trust in our friends and share our happiness, but instead of rejoicing our happiness they become spiteful. They will start complaining why they couldn’t the same life, life partners, boyfriends, as much money, dressing sense etc. as their friends have.

True the grass seems greener on the other side, but that happens everywhere. I haven’t seen a situation where men are envious of each other. They always support each other and try to help each other through rough times.

In some cases this jealousy is to such an extreme that they actually take practical destructive steps. They simply cannot stand to see another person of their own gender happy.

Girls scandalize other girls. They will do the very same thing themselves but point there fingers on others. Many times I myself have experienced my friends going behind my back and laughing off.

I find that my male friends are much better friends than MOST of my female friends. I don’t have to think twice before sharing my happiness and problems with them. I believe this is because between females there is a general tendency to pretend. Instead of sympathizing females are more prone to laughing behind your back; or rather passing on your story to others.

Why is it so? Why can’t we wish our friends good luck and a beautiful life?